在親密關係中做自己 – 電影「喜福會」 討論會

Being a self in intimate relationships – Movie Discussion “The Joy Luck Club”

22/8/2020 (Sat) 3:00 pm – 5:30 pm

Online Attendance Available

這是一套不可多得的電影，對年青男女和夫婦掌握如何在親密關係中活出自我、不亢不卑、尤為有幫助和富啟發性。

透過四位年輕女士和她們的家庭故事，這電影啟迪我們思考以下的問題:

在親密關係中，如何界定誰的需要是合理？如何分辨那是自私、還是建立自我、爭取自己應有的權益之行動？

愛對方是否要忘我，為對方犧牲？或需要犧牲到什麼地步？

賢良淑德的太太，事事以丈夫的事情和喜好為己任，以丈夫為專，得來的待遇卻是被丈夫冷待甚至有婚外情。問題出在那裡？

好性的女強人，原來是那麼喝求被母親的肯定！如何走出這枷鎖，做自己、活出自我、不再被以為是親人的期望所捆綁？

誠邀大家觀看此電影，然後參與討論會。

This is an extraordinary movie depicting the touching stories of four young women struggling to be a better self in their relationship with their partners and mothers.

How to be a self without being selfish or selfless?

Is love about denying self and sacrificing for the other? If so, to what extent should one sacrifice?

A devoted wife focused on meeting the needs of her husband was met with the husband’s aloofness and betrayal with his involving in an extra-marital affair. How do the problems develop?

An aggressive and competitive woman coveting the affirmation of her mother. How can one free oneself from such bondage, so that he/she can be free to be oneself, not bound by his/her perception of the expectation of others on self?

We invite you to view this movie and join our discussion!

陳蘇陳英女士將與大家一起以博域家庭系統理論闡釋和探討如何處理以上的情境，使能在親密關係中做到自己，建立堅實的自我，並與親人建立良好和成熟的關係。

Mrs. Peggy Chan will share her conceptualization and ideas of dealing with the above situations based on Bowen family systems theory.  Bowen theory offers valuable ideas on how to understand our relationships, on building a solid sense of self and build effective and meaningful relationships with others.

以下是電影《喜福會》在不同平台上的鏈接。

Below are the link of the movie “The Joy Luck Club” on different platform.

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