Jealousy: From the Systems Thinking Perspective
從系統角度看嫉妒

Dr. Martinez interviews Dr. Daniel Papero on jealousy. Jealousy can happen to marital partners, parent and child, and friends.

Dr. Papero described that jealousy is actually a deeply biological phenomenon. but is also has much to do with relationships. How much do we depend on the other person to do things the way we want so that we can feel comfortable? How much we maintain our own interest vs. giving up ours to soothe the other one?

This is a very stimulating talk that unravels many of our dilemmas that we face in our important relationships.

You will get more insights in the following areas:

• In what situation(s) would jealousy usually occur?
• What kind of relationship dynamics and individual functioning are involved?
• Is there any way to avoid or get out of it?

Dr. Martinez 訪問 Dr. Daniel Papero 有關嫉妒。 嫉妒可發生於夫婦、情侶、父母與子女，及朋友的關係。Dr. Papero 解釋嫉妒其實是一個很生物的現象，但亦是與人際關係有非常大的關係。在嫉妒的處境中，一些常遇到的矛盾是: 我們需要他人按照我們希望的方法去行事為人才感到舒服，或是: 我如何維護自己的權益，還是放棄自己的權益去使對方安定。

在這是一很啟發性的講解，協助我們洞悉很多日常重要關係中常遇到的現象 –

• 在什麼情況下嫉妒會發生？
• 當中有什麼關係形態和個人狀態？
• 有什麼方法可避免和相處？