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如何成熟地鼓動青少年

How to motivate teenagers

27/6/2020 (Sat) 3:00 pm – 5:30 pm
Online Attendance Available
「我個仔呀,死蛇爛鱔咁,叫一叫先郁一郁,多令人泄氣」。父母都希望兒女聽教聽話勤奮上進,可惜孩子進入了青春期後,個性往往變得「更有性格」,父母的教誨都變成了「耳邊風」。這實在太折騰父母了,因為「勸服」兒女變得正向努力實在太難了。
「勸服」不了孩兒,哪該怎辦才好?父母的關愛該以哪種形式表達呢?說不定「鼓動」就是答案。「受鼓動」的青年人是很有趣的,他們一旦認定了一個目標,便可變得廢寢忘餐。打機也是如此,他們只要認定了「打爆機」這個目標,他們不止會課金、更會在網上找攻略,總之務求實踐目標為止。這就是青少年「受鼓動」的力量。
既然「鼓動」青少年的力量可以如此大,哪麼怎樣才可以成功「鼓動」青少年?父母「鼓動」青少年前,可以有何心理準備以減少心中的焦慮?有甚麼東西值得「鼓動」?甚麼不值得「鼓動」?當中的界線可如何釐清?講者楊穎璋先生會與我們作個案分享,以他任教中學的歷程為例,討論箇中體驗和要素。
誠邀大家一同以〈博域視野〉探討以上課題。
“My son is so unmotivated, he will budge only when I push, it’s so frustrating.”
It is every parent’s wish that their children are obedient and self-motivated. But once they step into puberty, they often become very individualistic. To them, their parents’ words would go in one ear and out the other. It can almost become back breaking for parents to succeed in persuading their children to strive forward positively.
If you can’t succeed with persuasion, what else can you do? What would be more effective in expressing your care to them? Perhaps “motivation” may be the answer. Motivated teenagers are intriguing, once they target a goal, they can be completely wrapped up in their pursue while losing the concept of night and day. Just look at them on their video games, once they have set their aim to outrun the programme, they will set out to search for all strategies to achieve their aim. This is how they can channel their energy once they are motivated.
So if the force of Motivation can be so powerful, how can we successfully motivate our teenagers? Before parents begin to motivate their teenagers, how can parents prepare themselves to ease their anxieties? What are the things that deserve to motivate and what are not? How can we differentiate the difference?
Our speaker Mr. Roger Yeung will share his experience and cases with us from his perspective as a secondary school teacher.  You are cordially invited to join us at our coming “Bowen Vision” for the discourse on the above topic.

講者:
Speaker:

楊穎璋先生
Mr. Roger Yeung
B.SSc (Sociology) (CUHK),  PGDE (Liberal Studies) (HKU)

楊穎璋先生為現職中學教師,並正修讀香港中文大學學校諮商與輔導文學碩士。楊先生多年來任教較低組別學校,所任教的學生當中有些也曾遇上學習動機問題及行為情緒問題,因而在介入的過程中累積了一些與青少年相處的心得與經驗。

Mr. Roger Yeung, B.SSc (Sociology) (CUHK),  PGDE (Liberal Studies) (HKU)

Mr. Roger Yeung has been a secondary school teacher for 5 years.  He is currently attending  the MA (Student Guidance and Counselling ) programme of the Chinese University of Hong Kong.   He has taught mainly the lower forms of students, and has much experience in dealing with students with emotional problems and low motivation in studying.

編號

Course Code

BV 03/20
日期

Date

2020 年 6 月 27 日

27 June, 2020

時間

Time

下午 3:00 – 5:30

3:00 – 5:30 pm

地點

Venue

香港灣仔軒尼詩道130號修頓中心6樓 香港國際社會服務社 (地鐵灣仔站 B1 出口)

6/F, Southorn Centre, 130 Hennessy Road, Wanchai, Hong Kong (View map)

講者

Speaker

楊穎璋先生

Mr. Roger Yeung

語言

Language

廣東話

Cantonese

對象

Target

家長、教育者、助人行業人士、有興趣青少年情緒發展之人士參加

Parents, Educators, Counselors, Those interested in emotional development of teenagers

費用

Fee

公眾人士: HKD $75 ; COF會員: 免費

Public: HKD $75 ; COF Member: Free

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